Maybe I am just sincerely interested in other peoples well, interest. When I have a really fond memory of something, I'll tell somebody it passionately as if i'm reliving that moment. I think that's why I get a positive response when I say it so therefore making me seem more interesting. To put it in reverse, I could say "Hey man what's up?", and get a cliche response, or I could say instead, "Hey! What's going on?! Have I met you before?!" Maybe that's a bit too much, but you get my point.
I learned that sometimes it's how you tell a story or how you introduce yourself that makes you a more charismatic/engaging/bowl of delight (jello, like jello). If that fails, you can just keep talking and hopefully something you say ignites any kind of spark of interest in the unfortunate chap (or chapess, unfortunate chapess sounds right). Just take this advice or lack of advice, as a reminder to just be yourself. Yes, perfect ending.
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